Cerneka Family Adventures: Cerneka, Party of Five?

On May 30, at 0300, we welcomed our third child and second son Aiden Joseph Cerneka. He came in at 7 pounds, 10 ounces and 20 inches long.

I started contracting irregularly at while working on Wednesday. They continued during the day Thursday. I saw my midwife for my 39 week check up and got enough groceries to survive the End Times. Shannon had a meeting that night, so I took the kids to eat and play at McDonald's, figuring the next few days would be a little chaotic and mommy-less for them.

During that night, they started coming every ten minutes and were painful enough to wake me up each time. By the morning, Friday the 29th, the were still very regular and pretty uncomfortable. We decided to go in to the birth center and get checked. We left the kids with Dad, Mom went into school and said good bye and hugged her 3rd graders, and we called Katy Korte. We got to the Birth Center about 8am, and Ivy checked me. I was only 3-4cm and 75% effaced. She suggested we go home and relax until the contractions were closer together. We went to out to breakfast and then headed home. Mom went home and she and Dad kept Madeleine and Noah for the day. Katy remained on standby. I did some light housework, we took a walk, I tried to nap a little bit and watched a marathon of What Not to Wear. Throughout the day, my contrations went from 10 minutes apart, to four an hour, to three an hour, to two an hour. By four pm, I was one ticked off mama. I was all geared up to do this thing, and my body was not cooperating!

As the afternoon wore on into the evening, things started picking up again. By 10:00, I could could no longer walk or talk through the contractions. I was having to lean or kneel into the couch and have Shannon rub the small of my back. I was thinking about the big tub of warm water waiting for me the entire trip. We made the phone calls again and left for Columbia. When we got there, Ivy checked me again and I was 6-7 cm. I was more than ready to hop in the tub, but my blood pressure was up, so Ivy had me rest in bed for a bit. Mom and Katy got there, and after about an hour, I was able to get into the tub. It made an immediate difference in the level of discomfort. My back pain was gone immediately, and it easily cut the pain of the contractions in half. I soaked, floated, and contracted there for a couple hours, eating a bit of Mom's potato soup and visiting in between contractions. Ivy came in at about 1am and said, "You look too comfortable in there. You need to get out and walk a bit." I was indeed relatively comfortable in there, and was not the least bit interested in getting out and walking. I decided that I was just going to stay put until she came back and absolutely made me get out. 15-20 minutes later, I had to go to the bathroom, so I got out anyway, put a robe on and started making a circuit around the Birth Center.

I walked for about an hour, with Shannon next to me, waving and complaining at Mom and Katy every time we made a lap past my room. It got to the point where I could not take two steps without contracting. After a pit stop in the bathroom that lasted about 20 minutes because I started puking, likely due to transition, Ivy let me get back in the tub. Another 20 minutes later, I felt an overwhelming urge to push with my contractions. Ivy checked me, and said she was going to call the doctor, and as soon as she got there, I could push!

It seemed like forever (though it was probably about five minutes) later, I heard Dr. Alleman's voice. I started pushing. After about 10-15 minutes of pushing, the baby was born at exactly 3am. Ivy pulled him up out of the water and placed him on my chest and covered both of us with a warmed towel. I was so relieved that I was done that I totally forgot to ask if it was a boy or girl, until someone in the room asked, "What is it?". As Shannon announced, "It's a boy", I realized that I did indeed have a handful of boy parts in my right hand as I held him against my chest. We had an Aiden!

Brand new!

Ivy weighs and measure him.

Ready to go home! He is wearing the same Cardinal sleeper his sister and brother came home in.

We rested there at the Birth Center for a few hours. They made sure Aiden had nursed, that I had eaten something and used the bathroom, and we were both stable before everyone went home, at about 5am. We slept there a bit before packing up and bringing Aiden home. We got home about 11am and had a few hours to hang out with Aiden. Mom and Dad brought the kids and dinner over later. Evidently, Madeleine, who just knew she was going to have a sister, was sorely disapointed for about five minutes, crying and throwing a mini-fit. But as soon as she saw her baby brother in person, she was totally enchanted. Noah, too. He kept saying, "I love my baby brother!" and they both fought over who was going to hold him.

Spending some quiet time together at home.

Madeleine and Noah meet Aiden. They were smitten from the start, and could not stop giggling at him.

We loved our experience with the Columbia Family Birth Center and the midwifery model of maternal-child care. I felt very well cared for and respected. It is a very warm and family-friendly place to bring a new baby into the world. There were several reasons we chose an out-of-hospital birth. I don't want to get all soap boxy here, but I am more than happy to discuss our decision and our experience with anybody who has questions. I will say that if you are looking to birth under your own power in a totally supportive environment, the Columbia Family Birth Center is the place for you.

We are a very happy family of five now. We are having a wonderful summer and have already had several adventures together. Aiden is 8 weeks old tomorrow, and is now 10 pounds 7 ounces and 23 inches long. More stories and pictures to come!

Squishy baby kiss!